SheSpeaks

 As women, we are often the world’s greatest lovers. We go the extra mile for our families, pour ourselves into our careers, and master the art of sacrifice. But in the midst of giving so much to others, we often leave our own cups empty. When was the last time you directed that same radical kindness toward yourself? Choosing a self-love journey isn't about being selfish; it’s about sustaining your own well-being so you can thrive. If you’re ready to stop putting yourself last, here are 10 practical self-love habits every woman needs to try to reclaim her spark. 1. Master the Art of Setting (and Keeping) Boundaries To love yourself is to protect your peace. As women, we often feel guilty for saying "no," fearing we might let someone down. However, setting healthy boundaries is not about building walls; it’s about defining where you end and others begin. If you don't respect your own limits, you can't expect others to. Being "loud and clear" about your b...

According to Comte, society is naturally improving and with the improvements , comes change.  However, are all things changing? Should some of the things remain static?  In today's dating scene, change has already happened. With gender fluid people, gay, lesbians and queers being outspoken enough to stand what they believe in. I have no interest discussing them. It's the old traditional dating that I've interest in. Should a woman make the first move?  Naturally, if as a woman you need a man who leads, I'd be very cautious of making the first move. Call me a coward but there's no way as a woman I'm asking a man out as the first one. There's also no way I'm asking him to marry me.  Reason with me here; As a woman, it's natural for us to want to feel desired, wanted and even chosen. If you ask a man to marry you, how is that feeling chosen?  It's a common thing out here to say " if he wanted, he would" and girl trust me, if he wanted to a...