Why You shouldn't split the bill with a woman on date

 (This post isn't meant for the Dutchmen; Neither is it meant for stingy men association. )

Now, when i talk of a date, i mean a romantic date. The one that you ask a woman that you really like out for. As a man, if you want a woman to take you seriously, you should plan within your budget what you are willing to part with keeping in mind whether the relationship turns to something or nothing, you are okay and don't feel cheated. Whether you can only afford a glass of juice or a burger, go with it. Trying to go up and above your ability will leave you struggling and leave your date with the idea that you can afford expensive stuff when you actually cannot. If you can afford the expensive, just limit it to what you are comfortable with. As a woman here are some of the reasons i think you shouldn't split the bill with a woman you're trying to woo.


1. Women love being treated like princesses 

There's nothing that a sane woman loves than a man who can actually tell her to sit back. It shows you know how to treat a woman well and which woman doesn't want to be treated like a princess!?

2. It gives Alpha male vibes

A normal woman loves a man who takes charge. A man she can relax around knowing that she doesn't have to worry about. Now, this is where i say you decide how much you want to spend. Look up the hotel and see if it is within your budget.

3. Demonstrating Generosity and Intent

Paying for the meal is a straightforward way for a man to show his generosity and genuine interest. It signals that he values the woman’s company and is willing to invest in the budding relationship. This gesture can set a positive tone, indicating that he is serious about getting to know her better. It'd be very mean to ask a woman out then ask her to pay part of the bill. If she asked you out however, you can decide how to act depending on whether you like her or not. If you like her, pay. If you don't, well, decide for yourself.

4. Adhering to Social expectations 

Despite evolving gender roles, many women still appreciate the chivalrous act of a man paying for dinner, especially in the early stages of dating. This action aligns with a long-standing social expectation and can make the woman feel respected and cared for. While it’s important not to base a relationship entirely on traditional roles, understanding and respecting these norms can be beneficial in the initial stages.

5. Creating a Memorable experience

You look at a woman that you like, and decide to just treat her well. For the sake of memories and if your relationship hits off, she can always look back and smile at how well you treated her. If i paid half of the bill on my dates, I'd probably look back with a frown.

Conclusion

If you are thinking of taking someone out on a date, take initiative and cover that bill. Pull out her seat and give her attention. Unless you are really unlucky, that woman will probably like you back and will always have fond memories of you.

If you come by the post I'd love to hear some of the reasons as to why you'd ask a lady to split the bill.


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