Signs He is not that into you

 Introduction

Sometimes, we women want to paint red flags green. The fact thet you are searching for signs of whether he is into you or not is already a sign he is not. Men do go after what they want. Anyway, let me list it out for you; signs that he is not that into you include:

1. His Texts are as Rare as Unicorn Sightings

If you're constantly refreshing your phone, hoping for a text from him like a parched desert traveler searching for an oasis, and all you get are tumbleweeds, it's time to face the harsh reality: he's probably not as into you as you are into him. Sometimes you are left on read for long hours and not just in one day, but this is the usual. No man is too busy for what he wants.


2. He Cancels Plans More Often Than a Flakey Meteorologist

Does he have a sudden onset of mysterious ailments every time you make plans? If his excuse repertoire includes his dog suddenly needing a bath, his grandmother's cat having a birthday party, or a spontaneous urge to alphabetize his sock drawer, it might be time to reconsider his level of interest. Also, did he get arrested on Valentine's day? Did his mother ask for help on the day he was supposed to take you out? Excuses from here to Timbuktu and girl, you are still holding on.. What are you? Crazy?


3. Your Relationship Status: Ghosted

 If the only time you see him is in your dreams (or nightmares), and he disappears from the face of the Earth more often than Bigfoot, it's safe to say he's not exactly pining for your company. If he disappears and appears however he wants, girl you need someone to slap you so you can wake up. I'll leave my contacts at the end of the article just in case you need that slap.


4. You're His Personal ATM (Always Tagged as MIA)

 Does he conveniently forget his wallet every time you go out to eat? Or does he always seem to be out of cash when it's time to split the bill? If you're starting to feel like you're funding his lifestyle more than your own, it might be time to reevaluate the balance in your relationship. A man who likes you will never ask you for money. I've learned that the hard way. Do not be like me.


5. He's More Interested in His Phone Than You

If he spends more time swiping left and right on his dating apps than he does making eye contact with you, it's a glaring sign that his attention is elsewhere (and it's not on you). If you have to keep reminding him that you need to bond so he can keep off his phone, girl drop that clown.


6. His Body Language Screams "Exit Strategy"

Pay attention to the non-verbal cues. If he's constantly leaning away from you, avoiding physical contact like you're radioactive, or looking for the nearest escape route every time you're together, it's time to face the music: he's just not feeling it. Though touchy men make me uncomfortable, a man who likes you will want some physical contact and will also be keen enough to note if you are uncomfortable.


7. He Talks About His Future... Without You in It

If his plans for the future sound suspiciously solo – like backpacking through Europe, starting a llama farm in Peru, or joining a cult – and you don't seem to fit into the picture, it might be time to acknowledge that you're not his leading lady.

Conclusion

Remember, dating should be fun, not a game of deciphering mixed signals like a cryptic crossword puzzle. If he's not showing you the love and respect you deserve, don't be afraid to swipe left and move on to someone who's worth your time and affection. Do not paint those red flags green. If he is not into you, girl please leave. And remember, the only man you can change is an infant.. Diapers that is. Have fun dating and don't forget to watch out for the signs that he is not that into you.

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