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 You definitely have a woman in mind that you really like. You keep hoping and wishing that she is into you as much as you are into her. In the current world, it's a bit hard to tell especially when people are dating for benefits and financial gain. Here are some of the simple ways to tell if she is into you or not; 1. She doesn't initiate communication and if she does, it's because she needs something  How does the woman you like behave when it comes to communication? Are you always the one reaching out ? If she only reaches out when she needs to go out, food, money or even to have her assignments done, then she isn't  as into you as you think. Women like keeping in touch with someone we like and definitely love those texts. We enjoy the chats through the day and even late at nights so if she isn't talking to you as much, then she probably doesn't like you as much. 2. She doesn't want her friends meeting you Women always have other women who know the truth ...

 Sometimes when we like a guy, we definitely want to like us back. When he tries to be friendly, we want it to be because he likes us. One of the biggest mistakes I've made as a woman is to assume a guy likes me a lot when he actually didn't. If you keep yourself available for him, he will just appear and disappear at his convenience leaving you wondering what's exactly is going on. Do you have a guy you like and aren't sure if he is or isn't into you? Here are a few signs that he isn't that into you; 1  He Rarely Initiates Contact Men go after the woman they like. Whether she is out of the league or below their league. They make effort. If you're always the one texting or calling first, it’s a clear sign he’s not prioritizing you. When a guy is interested, he’ll make an effort to reach out and keep the conversation going. The one thing you could do is not text or call him and see if he will reach out.  2. He Doesn’t Make Time for You When he constantly canc...

 So, you've decided to dive into the world of online dating. Congratulations! You've taken the first step toward finding love, companionship, or at least a hilarious story to tell your friends. But before you create that profile and start swiping, there are a few things you should know. Trust me, you'll want to be prepared for the wild ride ahead. 1. The Gallery of Unsolicited Junk Brace yourself for a visual feast of unsolicited genitalia, mostly belonging to men who clearly don't understand the concept of "age-appropriate." Yes, you read that right. Prepare to receive photos from men or women proudly displaying their wrinkly junk, as if they're auditioning for a role in a bizarre nature documentary. Just remember, the delete button is your best friend. I once joined a dating site and almost went blind. Most men will rush to asking for your number and you will think it's a step forward. Dear girl, you've never been so wrong. 2. Fetishes Galore: Fr...

Most times while dating, we will be on the look out for red flags. Red flags are the telltale signs of potential trouble and are frequently discussed. However, focusing on green flags can be equally crucial. Green flags are the positive indicators that suggest a healthy, promising relationship. Here are some key green flags to look for while dating: 1.Consistent Communication A major green flag is consistent, open, and honest communication. If your partner makes an effort to communicate regularly, shares their thoughts and feelings, and listens actively, it shows they value the connection. This consistency lays a strong foundation for trust and understanding in the relationship. 2. Respect for Boundaries A partner who respects your boundaries, both emotional and physical, is a keeper. This respect demonstrates that they honor your individuality and autonomy. They understand that a healthy relationship is built on mutual consent and comfort, not coercion or pressure. 3. Empathy and Comp...

 My dad passed on when my mum was just 34 years. When i was a kid, it's seemed normal that my mum stayed single. Later in life, i always wondered why she didn't date again. She was and still is very beautiful. She was young then. When i asked her she gave me a simple answer " I chose to stay single for your sake as my kids.". That should have been a profound moment but it didn't occur to me how much that sacrifice meant.  As i grow older, that statement makes much more sense to me than ever before. Today, i listened to the sound of a 10 month baby who assaulted to death by the partner the baby's mother was dating. It was heartbreaking. As a single parent, dating won't be as easy as it were when you didn't have children. Apart from watching out for yourself, you will have to watch out for your kids and to make sure that they do not get hurt.  Here are a few tips for single parents who want to get back into the dating pool. 1  Communicate with Your Kids ...