Signs that he isn't that into you

 Sometimes when we like a guy, we definitely want to like us back. When he tries to be friendly, we want it to be because he likes us. One of the biggest mistakes I've made as a woman is to assume a guy likes me a lot when he actually didn't. If you keep yourself available for him, he will just appear and disappear at his convenience leaving you wondering what's exactly is going on. Do you have a guy you like and aren't sure if he is or isn't into you? Here are a few signs that he isn't that into you;

1  He Rarely Initiates Contact

Men go after the woman they like. Whether she is out of the league or below their league. They make effort. If you're always the one texting or calling first, it’s a clear sign he’s not prioritizing you. When a guy is interested, he’ll make an effort to reach out and keep the conversation going. The one thing you could do is not text or call him and see if he will reach out. 

2. He Doesn’t Make Time for You

When he constantly cancels plans or says he’s too busy, it indicates a lack of interest. A guy who’s into you will find time, no matter how packed his schedule is. It is said the effort someone puts into spending time with you shows how much they like you. 

3. He Avoids Deep Conversations

If your talks are always shallow and he avoids discussing feelings or future plans, he might not be emotionally invested. A real connection involves meaningful conversations. A guy speaks to the woman he sees a future with. If it's always sex, food and home, you probably don't feature anywhere in his future.

4. He’s Inconsistent with His Attention

One day he's showering you with attention, and the next, he's completely distant. This inconsistency often points to a lack of genuine interest. You're just there for his entertainment just in case he is bored. When something better comes up for him, he will definitely leave you unattended.

 5. He Doesn’t Introduce You to His Friends or Family

When a man is serious about you, he’ll want you to meet the important people in his life. If he keeps you separate, it’s a sign he’s not looking for a serious relationship.

6. He Keeps You at Arm's Length on Social Media

If he avoids posting about you or even acknowledging your relationship online, it might mean he doesn’t want others to know he’s involved with you.

7. He’s Always “Too Busy” for Dates

When he frequently has excuses for not going out or spending quality time together, it's a red flag. A man who’s genuinely interested will make an effort to see you.

 8. He Doesn't Show Interest in Your Life

A clear sign he’s not into you is a lack of curiosity about your day, interests, or achievements. Someone who cares will want to know all about what makes you tick. Sometimes don't offer the information, be keen on whether he will ask or not.

 9. He Avoids Physical Affection

While some people aren't naturally touchy-feely, a complete lack of physical affection can indicate a lack of romantic interest. If he shies away from holding hands, hugging, or kissing, it’s worth noting.

10. He Doesn't Make Future Plans with You**

If he never talks about future plans or includes you in them, it’s a strong sign he doesn’t see a long-term relationship with you. Someone who’s into you will want to discuss and plan for the future together.

 Conclusion

Recognizing these signs can help you understand his true feelings and save you from unnecessary heartache. It’s important to be with someone who values and appreciates you. If he’s showing these signs, it might be time to move on and find someone who truly cares. Remember, you deserve a relationship where you are valued and loved. 

Good luck finding love. You deserve it.