Signs that She isn't that into you

 You definitely have a woman in mind that you really like. You keep hoping and wishing that she is into you as much as you are into her. In the current world, it's a bit hard to tell especially when people are dating for benefits and financial gain. Here are some of the simple ways to tell if she is into you or not;

1. She doesn't initiate communication and if she does, it's because she needs something 

How does the woman you like behave when it comes to communication? Are you always the one reaching out ? If she only reaches out when she needs to go out, food, money or even to have her assignments done, then she isn't  as into you as you think. Women like keeping in touch with someone we like and definitely love those texts. We enjoy the chats through the day and even late at nights so if she isn't talking to you as much, then she probably doesn't like you as much.

2. She doesn't want her friends meeting you

Women always have other women who know the truth about their dating life. If she likes you a lot, she will definitely introduce you to her friends. She will want to hang out with you in their presence so when you leave they can gossip on how cute you look, and what a catch you are. If when she is with her friends she avoids you, it's time for you to turn your attention somewhere else.

3. She doesn't act 'girly' around you

I've been raised amongst boys and every time i really liked a guy, i wanted him to view me as a girl. I'd throw in a dress now and then. If she really likes you, she will want you to notice her. A dress, well done hair, nice lip gloss, a shy smile.. Something the society terms as "girly". Well, if she acts like your brother, you probably have been bro zoned. 

Some girls will want to smell good around the guy they like. 

4. She subtly suggests you date someone else

Sometimes a girl will suggest that you and some girl else look good together. If she is sane, you should take that as a hint that she isn't into you. The best way to react to this would be to ask her if she doesn't like you. Be ready for either outcomes. 

5. She has outrightly said she isn't into you

Some girls will not mince their words. If she says she isn't into you, leave it at that and walk away. No matter how much you like someone, don't hold onto them if they're not reciprocate your feelings. If you force a relationship, it's doomed to fail and you could both get hurt.

6. She avoids physical contact 

When a girl is into she likes holding hands, that small peck, a hug and even getting intimate. If she avoids physical contact, she probably isn't into you that much. Although it takes different amounts of time for different girls to get comfortable around guys they like, they eventually get there and will want physical contact when they're into you.

7. She has no interest in your life 

Have you told her about your upcoming project and she acted disinterested? Have you achieved something and she has not shown signs of celebrating you? Have you been unwell and she didn't bother to check on you? Were you emotionally down and she didn't even notice? That girl isn't into you. It's time you accepted it and moved on.

Conclusion. 

Being loved shouldn't be a struggle. It's always easier to move on in the earlier stages of a relationship than later. If she is depicting any of these signs, maybe it's time for you to move on. If she promises to make changes, don't be too excited. Observe and make a decision. 

Good luck finding love  💕