2025 welcome post

 2025 is here with us. Isn't it sooner than we all thought? Anyway, welcome to 2025 and with all the dating advice I've been posting in the last year, I'd have thought you're well equipped to go date but here you're girl. What are you? A slow learner? Or too lazy? 

In 2025, i expect every girl who wants to date to also try looking for money as hard as y'all are trying to look for boyfriends. I also expect you to prioritize your mental, physical and spiritual health. We all can't be having mad people in the dating pool. 

This year, it's okay to be cautious. Tell a friend where you're going and who you're going with. I also encourage y'all to keep off your friend's boyfriends or sister's boyfriends. The  world is big enough to not dip your hand into your close circle's pot. 

I'm begging you to be selfish with your wombs. Some of these guys y'all are getting babies with just make me want to weep. How do you get a baby with someone who has to be reminded to wipe his butt? How old is he? 3? 

I will be making house calls to whoop your asses if you keep that going. If you're a dating mom, don't ever pick a d*ck over your own child. I won't be repeating this statement. Ladies please, I don't want disappointments this year.

I wish you a happy 2025 and may we all date right. 

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